Stephane, ZZ and I were talking about consistency in the laws of attraction over Shock Tops at Brother Jimmy’s last Friday night. If you know Stephane, ZZ, or I you know that the strangest thing about that sentence is the Brother Jimmy’s part. ZZ – a serial monogamist – was saying he only ever attracts girls interested in serious relationships – that for reasons he …

It’s for some reason assumed that I have a position on Valentine’s Day – kind of like how it’s assumed that I meet, woo, and date a ton of guys and have correct answers on how you can too. I don’t, to both. I have thoughts about Valentine’s Day – that it’s a really swell concept – that it’s nice to see red in the …

Two (gulp) years ago I shared a theory about what the Olympics can do for our “love” lives. I can’t report exact numbers, but I’m going to go ahead and say the 2008 Summer Olympics results in no fewer than a shit ton of unexpected make-outs, hook-ups, and sleep-overs. How?! Why?! Where?! For me too?! you ask… Read on and get your of-course-I’ve-been-following-women’s-downhill-all-season face ready. …

It was the kind of birthday dinner party where I had to keep sneak-typing blackberry notes under the table to capture all the potential material: “I don’t need someone to give back everything I’m giving – the problem was she was uncomfortable with my being a giver – she’d always tell me to stop, but that’s who I am – how I’m always going to …

Last Fall Michelle Williams – was featured in a revealing Vogue article about life without Heath – raising her daughter Matilda as a single mother, her brief relationship with Spike Jonze, if she’s pissed that Katie Holmes is still more famous than her even though she staged that shockingly successful post-Dawson’s Creek acting career (or at least that’s what I would have asked…). In it …

I’ve almost written this post a dozen times but never gone through with it because it’s bound to piss people off – people I know. But to go 2.5 years of dating and relationship topics and not cover what pisses single people off about couples is avoiding the elephant in the blog. Whether it’s those first signs of coupledom – the excessive “we”-ing or 180 …