“Friends”,
Need some help from you and anyone you know for an article I’m writing.
Topic: people who gave up on hooking up.
For whatever reasons or motivations, they decided to stop any and all intimacy (the “go back to his/her place” variety) outside of legit dating.
- meet random guy at bar — won’t go home with him.
- Go on one date with a nice person, won’t no hook up after.
- See someone twice, maybe three times but still aren’t sure there’s something there worth keeping, won’t move to sleep overs until it’s clear. There doesn’t need to the famous “what are we” convo, but it needs to at least be clear that you two are pursuing a relationship that isn’t exclusively of the hook-up variety.
Whether its a hook up hiatus (perhaps for lent?) or a full-on change of philosophy, I’m interested in the reasons and results.
Is this you? Is this someone you know? Do you want to share some thoughts even if it isn’t either? email me at [email protected] by next Friday, March 27th.
And yes, I know, you’re still thinking, “what does she mean gave up hooking up…”
Thanks!
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