I’m sure I’ve touch on this before, but I want to be sure we’re all clear.

A well-executed sexy eye is among the most effective means to begin communication in a bar or like setting. This has been extensively tested.

While the sexy eye is a very personal thing, it should run exactly the same in most North American circumstances:

• Eye lock on the subject of interest
• Narrowing and intensifying of the eye for a closer, purposeful look
• “Tasteful” liiiingering on the subject to be clear this is not “do I know you?” but rather “can I know you…?”
• Tiny no-teeth smile and an almost indistinguishable sift of the eye accomplishing a quick up-and-down
• And the coy turnaway.

Wait ten minutes. Grab a drink. Do a little cute dance on or near the dance floor, and then re-engage in the eye with the same subject substituting the narrowing-for-a-closer-look with more lingering.
The real beauty of the sexy eye is the very clear intention it communicates without you having to awkwardly say something:

• Hhmmm. I think I like your face and/or entire situation…
• MMmm, yes as I make my eyes look sexy I also narrow them to take a closer look and see that I in fact do very much like your face and general situation
• Because I like what I see I’m going to look at you for awhile in a non-creepy manner to let you know that I like what I see so you’ll perhaps come over and talk to me.
• In case you’re not quite getting the drift I’ll provide a little smile that says “access granted” and then focus my eyes a tiny bit more to make them as clearly sexy as possible while also giving one final up-and-down so we’re both clear here
• Buut because cannot be 100% sure you’ll like me back, so I have to turn away and better evaluate how you might feel about me by engaging in this process several times.

The result. Target sees, understands, accepts, and moves closer to the sexy eyes giver in an effort to engage in conversation. This process is best captured in Kardinal Offishall’s hot, new track Dangerous featuring Akon:

• Girl I can notice but to / Notice you / Noticin’ me / from across the room I can see it but can’t stop myself from / noticin’ you / noticin’ me /

See. It works like that.
Now in my opinion the sexy eye should not be repeated more than three to four times with a given target. If they’re non-responsive after that much sexy then you’re dealing with one of three situations: they don’t understand this universally accepted flirting communication, you do a very poor sexy eye, or they’re not interested in you. To which I say: you don’t want to be with someone who can’t appreciate a fine S.E., try it out on some friends who genereally tell you the truth, and sorry about that…
Good luck out there. Please report back.