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A 40-something issue that’s more 20-something in my book

admin - January 21, 2011

My friend Mark e-mailed around this op-ed by writer Tim Kreider earlier this week. “Brilliant read,” he said. The Referendum(new york times, September 17th) Brilliant read was right. I strongly encourage you to peruse it yourself, but for purposes of maybe-you-have-a-lot-of-work-to-do-at-work-today, it’s about a man’s thoughts on how we personally choose to move through life, and how we view the choices of others relative to …

L.A. Month 4.5: Can you wait too long to move to L.A.?

admin - January 19, 2011

I developed this fairly well-rehearsed speech right before I moved to L.A. – partly out of necessity, though I only just figured out who exactly needed it. Everyone I encountered wanted to know why I was moving, how I was feeling, and when I’d come to this decision. By the time I was ready to move I’d perfected my lines to the point of answering …

On doing the long distance thing – or not

admin - January 14, 2011

To be totally honest, I haven’t written about the lost distance thing because I don’t know what to say. I’ve never really done it. There was a brief, undefined something with a guy in D.C. while I was in New York, but I don’t think you can count it if it ends before it’s defined. And then I did first meet R while he was …

News round-up: 20-something topics you should know about

admin - January 12, 2011

Keeping it simple today with a round-up of interesting tid-bits, news stories, and new sites across the Internets. Miss Dani Rosen is visiting L.A. this week, so I’m otherwise occupied trying to prove that I know where I’m going, and how to park once I get there. The New York Times highlights the trend of niche online dating. – Compatibility is rooted in like interests, …

My attempt to explain the “single girl badge of honor”

admin - January 10, 2011

Bear with me. This is a little hard to explain. The other day I was trying to express the fact that sometimes I have these moments where my “single girl badge of honor” rears its head. It’s almost devil-on-the-shoulder style – this tiny voice scoffing and then rolling her eyes at whatever couple-y activity I’m about to engage in or “we”-based compromise I make. “You …

Who should say “I love you” first, and why

admin - January 7, 2011

Some people are always concocting half-baked theories about why things are the way they are in the interpersonal department. Theories like why some girls are always attracted to assholes and why some guys seems to prefer crazy girls and why after three months you know if you really want to be dating someone or not. Some people think they know everything. Other people dole out …

Fear, Desire, and 2010 reflections

admin - January 3, 2011

We unanimously decided that classic, New York Chinese food was the proper last lunch for my trip back East slash reunion with the Mississippi’s. Jenny, Zac, Meg and I were joined by R and Clelia (my college friend, his childhood friend, and the person who suggested we meet). It was just the meal we bargained for, despite it being 10,000 degrees in the second floor …

How real/right is that “How to be a 20-something” article?

admin - December 17, 2010

You may have heard about this “How to be a 20-something” article making its way around the Internets. The source is the blog Thought Catalog, a clean and simple site that publishes essay-style thoughts from accomplished writers across all genres. “How to be a 20-something” is written by Ryan O’Connell – one such 24-year-old, East Village-based contributor whose bio reads like this: Along with creating …

Re-write: Learning to speak relationship

admin - December 15, 2010

I’m re-writing last Wednesday’s post – the one about learning to speak relationship. When I wrote it, it didn’t feel quite right. I think I launched into it wrong and made it jokey-er that I originally intended. I re-read it the other day and decided I missed the point I was trying to make. It’s not that what I wrote isn’t true. It’s that it …

The blog is a year older today – and maybe finally wiser

admin - December 13, 2010

The blog is three years old today. Three whole years ago Pierson and I took our incessant gchat conversations from private to public for the purpose of…we had no idea. Truly. I can tell you the goal wasn’t to end up in Los Angeles three years later pursuing a career in entertainment. And while that result certainly isn’t wholly owed to this blog (sorry Mom, …