Love

quick note for today. finishing up the book this week!Chris and his friend Chris and I were talking about some Boston-based group of girls that one of the two Chris’s knew. (paraphrased): “They’d always invite me to do stuff around town,” Chris was saying, “but it’s like – no I don’t want to go to the museum with you – I’m a guy and none …

*The below letter clearly summarizes my mission in a format that’s easily posted, tweeted, pasted into status messages, and emailed around to everyone you know.  We can do this, America. Dear Sir or Madam:I’m on a personal mission to date a member of the Obama family, and I believe you can help. A CHANGE of dating tactic YOU CAN BELIEVE INFinding an eligible man in …

I wasn’t kidding about this I-date-a-relative-of-Barack-Obama situation. The formal search has begun and is now organized into a three prong approach: 1. Ancestry.com searching and susequent contactingLast week I had the following conversation with Carly: Carly: i can help!! i have literally done this kind of Me: this is so wonderful Carly: i have my family tree back to rev war and saw that i …

You think things are going fairly well. Maybe you’ve hooked up once or twice.  Perhaps you connected really well at some bar or house party.  Could be you went on what you believed was a bonafide date.   Then this text: hey kiddo – going to be late to the bar but c u there ltr Or this email: hey kiddo – sure I’d be up for …

Finding my Obama There’s no question that Barack Obama was a smart guy to marry — brains, looks, charm, American presidency — just the kind of guy you could bring home to Mom. So it would only seem logical that a relative of our Husband-in-Chief would possess those same qualities that made Barry so datable in the first place. He would be a catch. This …

You think you know what it means to be a strong woman — a strong person even — and then you read this essay. “Sure, you have your marital issues, but on the whole you feel so self-satisfied about how things have worked out that you would never, in your wildest nightmares, think you would hear these words from your husband one fine summer day: ‘I …

The following is a real, unedited gchat conversation between 27-year-old-male and female friends around this issue of sex numbers — and some other fascinating stuff. Names have been changed for protection slash humor — and I also cut out a section where “Olivier” talks about “how many mexicans he has under his belt.” You don’t even want to know. Read. Digest. Judge. Comment. Bianca: OMG …

Change of schedule — this one before the candid convo. Representing the other side of the argument — the ask and tell side — is the other half of the respondents from yesterday’s post. Their rationale’s are equally well thought out and effective meaning we’re essentially no where on this issue… Read on: 26, female, in a relationship So…I was always of the philosophy, “Dont’ …

As promised, the first in a series of follows-ups from the halvsies post last week. Thank you for your patience Greenberg. I reached out to 10 guys and 10 girls on the issue of whether or not to share your sex number with your significant number. Exactly half of the people (who responded….) reported that they strictly follow the Don’t Ask/Don’t Tell policy. Here are …

Today a guest post from the hysterical writer behind blog meetmygay.com. I’m a straight woman who has lived in West Hollywood, AKA the 2nd gayest place on earth next to Disneyworld, for the majority of my adult life. I’ve learned a lot about dating from a unique, gay perspective. As a result of the competitive dating scene, my gay friends tend to be much more …